Dear Y.E.S.S.,
I do not have a bond with my sister. I would really like one but my sister is a brat and when I try to talk to her she beats me up. How would I have a bond with her without her beating me up?
Dear Beat Up Girl,
Self-reflection and gratitude. Whether you believe it or not you have an unbreakable bond with your sister. You will always be sisters and you will always be each others best friend and worst critic. Don=t worry too much about having a bond because it=s already there, but make sure you look at yourself because your words and actions arise from your thoughts. If you are always looking at her and her actions then that is all you see and you want that to change but of course changing someone else is next to impossible. Focus on yourself and you will be surprised at how things will change because you have changed something that you are doing. Try this...thank you sister for 5 things everyday. You do not have to feel thankful you just have to say the words. Thank her for taking a phone message, being nice to your Mom, putting the milk in the fridge, anything that she does that you can see helps you out or your family out. See if this helps.